There’s no avoiding it. We’re going to encounter some major culture shock when we arrive in China. While we’re plowing through paperwork, we’re also trying to learn a little more about cultural practices and etiquette so we can be gracious visitors and better understand the homeland of our child.
I read this article a while back, and I don’t think I can do any better than the author’s explanation of this pervasive trend in institutionalized children. Although I am trying to steel myself for having many well-meaning “advisors” guiding me on how to dress my child, I know that it’ll still be quite the experience. From all the stories I’ve read thus far, I think it’s impossible to avoid at least one comment of “Put some clothing on that child!”
Brian & Kathleen,
Even though our adoption trip was 18 years ago, Dave & I truly treasure the video we took while we were in Russia. We used a separate video camera.
I think it’s especially important for your adopted child.
Over the years, Hannah has watched these videos more times than we can count, with us & by herself.
Hearing the sounds, the language, and seeing all of the sights (including
her orphanage–everything we could film, really) has served as her best “memory” of her beginnings with us and her heritage.
We feel very blessed with priceless video that allows us to re-live this special, God-led experience.
In particular, the longer video footage (from a video cam) captured where Hannah was (physically & developmentally) better than a short clip (from a still-camera) would have. This is also helpful for medical & developmental checks
in the future, as Hannah was also special needs.
When you meet your child, you’ll forget you’re filming because you’re in awe of this new little person in your lives and even “ordinary” things are so entertaining…this makes the video even more priceless for all of you in the years to come! Go for it!!! And while you’re at it…take a small tripod so you can all be in the video at times!
Terri & Dave
What an interesting article! They do look super cozy and oh, so loved in those bundles of coats. 🙂 It sort of reminds me of Randy, in The Christmas Story.
I’m just now catching up on some previous posts; I’m loving reading all about your and Brian’s adventures in adoption. I’m so thrilled for you two and look forward that all is to come for you and your budding family!
much love,
Sally